It may not come as a surprise to learn that I came early and easily to all things anal, and I’m still an enthusiastic practitioner! However, anything that comes close to anal sex is often still a taboo for most straight men (and even a few staunch gay tops). It’s quite a prevalent attitude that any ass play would be a reflection upon their masculinity. However, the tides are starting to turn and many otherwise straight-as-an-arrow types are finding that prostate stimulation can help them reach greater heights of orgasmic bliss. It’s no surprise considering the anus contains an incredibly high concentration of nerve cells, and the prostate which is often called “the male g-spot”. I’ve often considered those who don’t experiment with ass play to not know what they are missing.

I remember my first anal toy at the tender age of 15 was a non-vibrating 3 -pronged back massager that I found I could insert and rock on while one of three prongs massaged my perineum and the other hit my prostate. I know, I know, I was a kinky young kid. While this makeshift toy did the trick, I would have loved having toys like The Boys back then!

The Rude Boy is definitely one of my favorite insertable sex toys that I’ve ever owned. From its name, to its “dog toy” sturdy appearance (sometimes I just want to gnaw on it) it’s an all around solid and easy-to-use toy that looks great and performs even better. At its core is a powerful RO-80mm bullet vibrator, which produces a more intense vibration than your average bullet. These bullets are waterproof as well as being removable. The entire Rude Boy series is made from high quality medical grade silicone which is a snap to clean, and because the bullets are removable you can even boil them!

There are currently three brothers in the Rude Boy line up: “The Naughty Boy”, “The Rude Boy”, and “The Bad Boy”. The Rude Boy is the original brother of the bunch and features a smooth cylindrical shape which is an even 3.5″ inches along the entirety of its 5.5″ of insertable length. “The Naughty Boy’ is a perfect option for those that are new to anal play. At its widest point it has the same circumference as the Rude Boy, however, the tip and the rest of its length it is much narrower, offering more comfortable insertion. Featuring an ergonomic design, it is the perfect choice for those who are intimidated by the thought of anal play. Bringing up the rear is the big boy of the bunch, “The Bad Boy”. Featuring the same ergonomic design as “The Naughty Boy” but at a much heftier 5″ circumference at its widest point. “The Bad Boy” is the perfect choice for those craving a bit more girth in their anal toys. All three of the boys are now available in both jet black and the new devilish red.

The unique feature of all The Boys is their design. They feature a curved shape that is compromised of two main sections, the insertable length and a very unique vibrating base. It rests on the perineum (the taint) and provides a delightful vibrating stimulation of the prostate from the outside while the insertable portion hits it from the inside! Lube up, insert your Boy, rock on the vibrating base and jack off to a powerful orgasm! What could be better?

If you’ve decided to make the leap into anal stimulation (which I highly encourage you to do) The “Rude Boy” series is a great jumping off point. There is a “Boy” for everyone from beginner to advanced, and these high quality toys are built to last as well as provide you with satisfying fun time after time.

History’s first record of a chastity belt is a report from a 15th century German doctor about the “hard iron breeches of Florentine women”. Since then, enterprising kinksters have been trying to build a perfectly effective device to ensure the wearer is unable to achieve orgasm. Lately I’ve been testing some chastity devices that have come on the market recently, and it’s got me thinking about what the perfect CB would be like.

First of all, it would fit the wearer like a glove, be invisible under clothes and would be completely escape-proof. The wearer would be able to go about their daily lives without any restrictions (other than the obvious “no orgasms until the keyholder agrees to unlock you” restriction) so activities like swimming, riding a bicycle or going through a metal detector wouldn’t be a problem. Any attempt to tamper with the lock or efforts to remove the belt would be visible to the keyholder.

Secondly, there would be a way to stimulate the wearer to keep them constantly aroused. The ability to deliver pleasure for specific durations and of specific intensities would help the keyholder’s maximize the submissive’s desperation. An adjustable system that allows or prevents erections would be very useful to keyholders who want total control of their chastity slave’s penis.

Conversely, the perfect CB would also allow the keyholder to deliver controllable amounts of pain to the wearer. Sharpened metal spikes inside a chastity belt, for example, are a particularly effective way to deliver pain to a locked penis trying to become erect. There is a device in development now that will allow electrical shocks of variable intensity to be delivered to the genitals of the chastity belted slave, and these shocks can be triggered by remote control. Expect to see this type of device hit the market sometime next year.

The perfect chastity belt would be suitable for both short term, long term or even permanent wear. Nothing is more frustrating than taking a submissive to the point of constant arousal and desperation to cum, then being forced to grant their pleas for release solely for hygenic purposes. Some keyholders I know would love a locking mechanism that can be set for a specific period of time before which the belt cannot be opened for any reason. This would prevent less-than-iron-willed keyholders from taking pity on the submissive and ending their chastity period earlier than planned.

And since we’re designing the perfect chastity belt, wouldn’t it be nice is it had a USB port and a mini-jack so the belt can play mp3’s, store digital photos and interface with your cell phone? Now that would be a chastity belt that any submissive would be proud to wear.

One of the more interesting debates among devotees of the fine art of orgasm denial is around the use of chastity devices.  With apologies to William Shakespeare, To belt, or not to belt: that is the question. 

There are many dominants who feel that a chastity belt is absolutely essential for putting their submissives into the proper mental state.  When a submissive is locked in a device such as the Chrome Cock Cage, his inability to touch his own penis or masturbate to orgasm is a powerful reminder that his sexual activities are being controlled by someone else.  The physical sensation of being locked inside the chastity belt and the discomfort experienced when trying to get erect have powerful mental effects that are tremendously effective at maintaining a strong desire to serve.

Some dominants also feel that men are incapable of “keeping their hands out of the cookie jar”, particularly when the submissive has been denied sexual release for a long period of time.  Since the submissive can’t be trusted to keep from masturbating, the argument goes, some mechanical assistance is needed to prevent “accidents” from occurring.  There are also those who prefer to use chastity devices because they love the sight of a man’s cock and balls locked in a cage.  The Houdini chastity device, which presents a visual contrast between the head of the caged penis surrounded by cold, unyielding steel, is one of the most visually attractive chastity belts available.

On the other side of the debate are those who prefer not to use chastity belts at all.  The first dominant I ever knew felt that using a chastity cage made life too easy for the submissive.  Her belief was that when denied orgasm for an extended period of time and desperate to cum, it is far harder for the submissive to know that he could cum if he wanted to, but to choose not to.  She loved the idea that despite suffering intense sexual frustration and having the ability to relieve that frustration by masturbating, her submissive would still choose to remain chaste because that was her wish.  Knowing that her submissive was the one making the decision to prolong his own suffering was a big part of why she enjoyed chastity play.

So, to belt or not to belt?  As with many forms of BDSM play, there is no right or wrong answer.  Whether you prefer that the submissive stays chaste by his own free will, or you want to hear the undeniably sexy sound of a lock clicking shut, the knowledge that the submissive’s next orgasm won’t come until the dominant gives permission can be a tremendous turn-on for all.

Pink is the new Black
By Christine Kessler

Something happened to me after high school. I can remember, back in the day, wearing nothing but black. My hair was black, my clothes were black, and I matched all my friends. I’m sure it had something to do with us being death rockers (these were the days before goth, or whatever we were.) Then, suddenly, without thinking twice, I got into pink. I don’t know how it happened, and my high school self would have been appalled, but there was no stopping it.

I own tons of pink… clothes, TWO custom-made pink floggers, pink rope, pink restraints, and one super-hot pink leather jacket.

So it should come as no surprise that I have fallen head-over-heels for Stockroom’s foxy pink leather bolero straightjacket. It makes me go all weak in the knees.
1) Because it’s pink.
2) Because it’s leather.
3) Because there’s just something fucked up about pink things used for restraining and/or hurting people. Consensually, of course.

There’s just one problem. This dreamy garment was one-of-a-kind, made especially for their Valentine’s Day Poem Contest giveaway. There’s some lucky pervert out there who owns my ultimate dream straitjacket and they’d better hope they don’t run into me while wearing it, ‘cause I’ll take them down.

Pictured in this photo are Athena Fatale and Courtney Crave.

More images from this shoot can be found on my blog. The full gallery will be added to my member site.

You blink your eyes, vision blurred as if you’re waking from a nap that took days too long. As the colors assemble into the shapes of objects, you can’t help but notice this pain… a stinging, swelling pain emanating from your hind quarters. It pulsates, flares, pierces into your very core, distracting you enough to just barely notice that your arms are streched outwards, cuffed to what appears to be horizontal bars. You start to notice they’re next to you, above you, in front of you. “I must be in a cage of some sort,” you think to yourself. “How did I get here?” Your eyes wander until the pain swells up again, this time harder than before. A scream escapes you, poor pathetic you, still in confusion on your whereabouts. Suddenly your sense of smell is enhanced, picking up the unmistakable aroma of leather and latex. These scents awaken a deep part of you that you never knew existed, and you actually start to enjoy the pain. You beg for more, now ignoring the circumstances leading to your whereabouts. “Harder.” The pain continues. You scream in agony. Then delight. “Oh! More! I deserve it!” you scream. You then hear a raspy voice reply condescendingly, “You’re not worthy of ordering me around, you disobedient maggot!” The pain continues, escalating at a far greater rate. You scream in ecstasy, your breathing heavy, energy spent as you begin to smirk, “Yes, Master.”