Mistress:
My husband and I are looking for a sample of a Master-Slave contract. Could you please email a sample or suggest where we can find such a document?
- CaBird
No. Look it up yourself you lazy twat.

Mistress

My wife and I have been involved in S&M for over 6 years now. She’s dominant and one of the things I enjoy most is cigarette torture. We havn’t gone so far as to do actual burning of the skin. My question is what experience have you had with this, and can you offer any advice on the subject? Other than the obvious burn and scar, are there any other dangers that we’re not aware of?

When a troubled submissive woman reports to her therapists the nature of her submissiveness, she is likely to encounter an uninformed therapeutic stance: that her submissiveness is just another manifestation of pathology: of disturbed interpersonal relations. The therapist does not know how to use the woman’s submissiveness in a therapeutic way, because s/he doesn’t understand what an ally in the healing process the submissive response is.

When I think about my favourite fetish, I return to kindergarten. I was five years old, but that’s when I acquired my first true fetish. I wasn’t looking for it, I didn’t ask for it, but its arrival has remained permanent.

I’ve been around the block, D/s-wise. You name it, and I’ve probably done it with my willing submissives and slaves. As the saying goes, I’ve been there. I’ve done that…But not chastity.

There are as many ways to conduct a Master/slave relationship, as there are people in the lifestyle. Sometimes, circumstances or personal preferences dictate that the Master and slave may not live together initially.

Even for people with interests in erotic submission, the idea of being in chastity, of preventing sexual stimulation and NOT having orgasms, often seems to go against the whole purpose of having sex in the first place. Isn’t it ultimately supposed to be about pleasure? And isn’t orgasm the best part of that process, the desired result, the goal?