When I think about my favourite fetish, I return to kindergarten. I was five years old, but that’s when I acquired my first true fetish. I wasn’t looking for it, I didn’t ask for it, but its arrival has remained permanent.

I’ve been around the block, D/s-wise. You name it, and I’ve probably done it with my willing submissives and slaves. As the saying goes, I’ve been there. I’ve done that…But not chastity.

There are as many ways to conduct a Master/slave relationship, as there are people in the lifestyle. Sometimes, circumstances or personal preferences dictate that the Master and slave may not live together initially.

Even for people with interests in erotic submission, the idea of being in chastity, of preventing sexual stimulation and NOT having orgasms, often seems to go against the whole purpose of having sex in the first place. Isn’t it ultimately supposed to be about pleasure? And isn’t orgasm the best part of that process, the desired result, the goal?